英语翻译Dear Annie:I recently came across an e-mail from my 15-y

英语翻译
Dear Annie:
I recently came across an e-mail from my 15-year-old daughter to her 22-year-old cousin that was rather revealing.(OK,I was snooping.) My daughter,"Carlie," was attending a sleepover at a senior girl's house,and it turns out there was alcohol there.She confided in her cousin that a boy (an 18-year-old) had kissed her,that she drank a lot but was fine,and that her friend drank too much and got very sick.
I've told no one,not even my wife,what I discovered.Should I say something to the mother of the girl who hosted this sleepover about the underage drinking?I could really use your advice.－ Distressed Dad in N.Y.
Dear Dad:
Tell Carlie you saw the e-mail,apologize for snooping and lovingly let her know you are worried.Talk about the hazards of drinking,especially at her age,and the problems of becoming involved with upperclassmen who expect more than she might be ready to give.Then call the parents of the party-giver and tell them you are aware there was underage drinking at their home and they would be held liable if anything happened.Finally,why was your daughter at that sleepover?As flattering as it may have been for Carlie to be invited to a senior girl's party,it was inappropriate.Sometimes parents need to say no.

Dear Annie:
亲爱的annie,
最近我无意中看的（ok,我是挺爱管闲事的）我15岁的小女儿给她22岁的表姐写的邮件.我女儿,暂叫她“Carlie”,前几天在一个她的学姐家sleepover（过夜的那种party）,结果这是个准许喝酒的聚会.她告诉她表姐其中的一个男孩子（18岁）吻了她,并且,她喝了很多,没有太大碍,但她的朋友喝的酩酊大醉.
我没把这事透露给任何人,连老婆我都没说.我应不应和开party的女孩的母亲谈谈,告诉她这些不够年龄的孩子在sleepover是喝酒了?我很想听听你的意见.
一个不知所措的爸爸,于纽约
亲爱的家长,
告诉你女儿carlie你看到了邮件,跟她道歉说你不该多管闲事,只是你很担心.谈谈酗酒的坏处,尤其是她这个年龄,并告诉她和高年级学生交往的问题,有时他们会想要她还不能给的.然后致电办party家的家长,告诉他们如果发生任何事他们要负责.最后说一句,为什么你女儿会去这个sleepover?虽然被高年级学姐邀请是件很有面子的事,但还是不太合适.有时家长是要坚定立场说“不行”的.