英语翻译Rather than talk about how he feels,often a man would ex

英语翻译
Rather than talk about how he feels,often a man would express his love by buying the woman cosmetics (化妆品),or bringing home a flower,or giving up the control of the remote (遥控器).
And when men do talk,they’d prefer to talk about actions rather than emotions.For example,a lot of men would choose to express their long-range faith in a relationship by talking about next summer’s vacation plans,not by starting a conversation about undying love.
Men just prefer to say their plans with plane tickets,rather than poetry.It’s one of the reasons why men are more comfortable talking at work (the practical world) than they are at home (the castle that emotion built).But you can bring out his great communicator by making him feel more like he’s operating in the work mode,even when the topic at hand is your love life.
When men talk less and women want more,the conflict can escalate.Like when a policeman is questioning an unwilling witness,more silence equals more questions.A full 65 percent of men we surveyed recently told us that they don’t want their partners to ask them more questions about themselves.
It’s clear that some men are just tired of feeling like they’re on the witness stand.They’re not necessarily hiding anything; many men simply prefer not to have to tell confusing feelings that they may not even understand themselves.
An age-old method can make things better:back off a little,give him room to operate in a conversation,and he’s more likely to open up.

一个男人表达他的爱意不是通过他的感受,而是通过给女性买化妆品,带一束花回家,或者是不和女性抢遥控器.男人们谈话的时候也宁愿谈论实际行动而非情感.比如说,许多男人在表达他们对感情的长期忠贞时,他们更倾向于选择讨论下一个暑假计划,而非进行一段关于永恒不朽的爱情的对话.
男人宁愿说他们的计划和飞机票,而非诗歌.这就是为什么男人工作时（现实世界）的谈论比在家里（由情感建立起的城堡）更舒服.但你可以让他变成了不起的沟通者,比如让他感觉他更像是在工作模式下运行,即使当前的话题是你的爱情生活.
如果男人说的少而恰巧女性想听更多的时候,矛盾就会上升.就像警察询问一个不愿合作的目击者,更多的沉默意味着更多的疑问.通过最近的调查,我们发现65%的男人不想让他们的伴侣过多地询问关于他们自己的事情.很明显,一些男人感到疲倦,因为他们觉得自己就像站在证人席.他们没必要隐藏任何事,许多男人仅仅只是不愿意不说这些奇怪的感觉,因为他们自己也许都不能明白.
一个古老的方法让事情变得更好.女性退让一步,给男人一点空间来进行谈话,这样他也更愿意开口.