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The way people hold to the belief that a fun - filled, pain free life equals happiness actually reduces their chances of ever attaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equal to happiness then pain must be equal to unhappiness. But in fact, the opposite is true: more often than not things that lead to happiness involve some pain.
As a result, many people avoid the very attempts that are the source of true happiness. They fear the pain inevitably brought by such things as marriage, raising children, professional achievement, religious commitment （预担的义务）, self - improvement.
Ask a bachelor（单身汉） why he resists marriage even though he finds dating to be less and less satisfying. If he is honest he will tell you that he is afraid of making a commitment. For commitment is in fact quite painful. The single life is filled with fun, adventure, excitement. Marriage has such moments, but they are not its most distinguishing features.
Couples with infant children are lucky to get a whole night’s sleep or a three - day vacation. I don’t know any parent who would choose the word fun to describe raising children. But couples who decide not to have children never know the joys of watching a child grow up or of playing with a grandchild.
Understanding and accepting that true happiness has nothing to do with fun is one of the most liberating realizations. It liberates time: now we can devote more hours to activities that can genuinely increase our happiness. It liberates money: buying that new car or those fancy clothes that will do nothing to increase our happiness now seems pointless. And it liberates us from envy: we now understand that all those who are always having so much fun actually may not be happy at all.
The way people hold to the belief that a fun - filled, pain free life equals happiness actually reduces their chances of ever attaining real happiness. If fun and pleasure are equal to happiness then pain must be equal to unhappiness. But in fact, the opposite is true: more often than not things that lead to happiness involve some pain.
As a result, many people avoid the very attempts that are the source of true happiness. They fear the pain inevitably brought by such things as marriage, raising children, professional achievement, religious commitment （预担的义务）, self - improvement.
Ask a bachelor（单身汉） why he resists marriage even though he finds dating to be less and less satisfying. If he is honest he will tell you that he is afraid of making a commitment. For commitment is in fact quite painful. The single life is filled with fun, adventure, excitement. Marriage has such moments, but they are not its most distinguishing features.
Couples with infant children are lucky to get a whole night’s sleep or a three - day vacation. I don’t know any parent who would choose the word fun to describe raising children. But couples who decide not to have children never know the joys of watching a child grow up or of playing with a grandchild.
Understanding and accepting that true happiness has nothing to do with fun is one of the most liberating realizations. It liberates time: now we can devote more hours to activities that can genuinely increase our happiness. It liberates money: buying that new car or those fancy clothes that will do nothing to increase our happiness now seems pointless. And it liberates us from envy: we now understand that all those who are always having so much fun actually may not be happy at all.
人们坚信充满欢乐而没有痛苦等同于幸福的想法事实上使他们减少了得到真正的幸福的机会.如果欢乐,愉快等同于幸福,那么痛苦必将等同于不幸福.但是,事实上,恰恰相反:多数情况下,幸福包含着一定的痛苦.
结果,真正的幸福往往来源于很多人所逃避的尝试中.他们害怕的痛苦不可避免的来源于结婚,养育孩子,事业成就,宗教义务,自我提升.问问一个单身汉,问什么他拒绝结婚以至于觉得约会越来越没有安全感.如果他说实话,他会告诉你他害怕承担责任.义务事实上是相当大的痛苦.单身生活充满欢乐,冒险,激情.婚姻里也有这样的时刻,但却不是它最明显的特征.
那些有婴儿的夫妻如果能有一个不被打扰的夜晚或三天的假日就很幸运了.我认为没有一个父母愿意选择愉快这个词来描述养育孩子.但是那些决定不生孩子的夫妻永远也不会知道看着一个孩子慢慢长大或同孙子一同玩耍的乐趣.
理解并接受真正的幸福与娱乐无关是最解放的认知之一.它解放时间：现在我们可以将更多的时间用于让增加我们的幸福的活动.它解放金钱：那些无助于提高我们的幸福的事,比如购买新汽车或那些喜欢的衣服,现在看来毫无意义.并将我们从嫉妒中解放出来：我们现在明白,那些总是拥有很多娱乐的人事实上一点都不快乐.
结果,真正的幸福往往来源于很多人所逃避的尝试中.他们害怕的痛苦不可避免的来源于结婚,养育孩子,事业成就,宗教义务,自我提升.问问一个单身汉,问什么他拒绝结婚以至于觉得约会越来越没有安全感.如果他说实话,他会告诉你他害怕承担责任.义务事实上是相当大的痛苦.单身生活充满欢乐,冒险,激情.婚姻里也有这样的时刻,但却不是它最明显的特征.
那些有婴儿的夫妻如果能有一个不被打扰的夜晚或三天的假日就很幸运了.我认为没有一个父母愿意选择愉快这个词来描述养育孩子.但是那些决定不生孩子的夫妻永远也不会知道看着一个孩子慢慢长大或同孙子一同玩耍的乐趣.
理解并接受真正的幸福与娱乐无关是最解放的认知之一.它解放时间：现在我们可以将更多的时间用于让增加我们的幸福的活动.它解放金钱：那些无助于提高我们的幸福的事,比如购买新汽车或那些喜欢的衣服,现在看来毫无意义.并将我们从嫉妒中解放出来：我们现在明白,那些总是拥有很多娱乐的人事实上一点都不快乐.