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如何使自己更有说服力?

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如何使自己更有说服力?
先做个小测试吧!
你多么有说服力?1
Can you control a set-piece conversation,or are you putty in the hands of others?Take our quick test to find out
你可以控制一次事先精心安排的对话吗?你容易受人摆布吗?进行测试找出答案.
1.At a job interview,you are asked to talk about both your strengths and weaknesses.When should you mention your weaknesses?
1.面试时,你被要求谈谈你的优点和缺点.你该什么时候提你的缺点?
a) After you talk about your strengths
a)你谈完优点之后
b) Before you talk about your strengths
b)你谈优点之前
c) Weaknesses?What weaknesses?
c)缺点?什么缺点?
2.You want to persuade a colleague at work to support your application for promotion.You would be most effective by asking them to think of:
2.你想说服一个同事支持你升职的申请.让他们想到什么你会最有效果:
a) One or two reasons why they should support you
a)一两个他们应该支持你的理由
b) Three or four reasons why they should support you
b)三四个他们应该支持你的理由
c) As many reasons as they can for why they should support you
c)尽可能多的他们应该支持你的理由
3.At the interview you are asked to provide good,strong arguments for why you are the best candidate.How quickly should you speak?
3.面试时,你被要求又好又有力的论证一下为什么你是最佳人选.你应该讲多快?
a) You should speed up a little
a)你应该加快一点速度
b) You should speak at a moderate rate
b)你应该以中等语速讲
c) You should slow right down
c)你应该慢下来
4.You have put a lot of effort into helping out a work colleague.What is the best thing you could say after they thank you for your help?
4.你费了很大劲帮一位同事忙.他们说谢谢你的帮助后你能说什么最好的话?
a) It's a pleasure.I am always happy to help.
a)很高兴.我总是乐于助人.
b) Now you owe me.
b)现在你欠我了.
c) I know that if I ever need your help in the future you'd do the same for me.
c)我知道如果我以后需要你的帮助你也会帮我.
5.You meet a man called Lawrence at a dinner party.Which of the following is his most likely occupation?
5.你在晚宴上遇到一个叫劳伦斯的人.下面哪一项是他最可能的职业?
a) Roofing contractor
a)屋顶维修
b) Dentist
b)牙医
c) Lawyer
c)律师
Answers
答案
1:B 2:A 3:C 4:C 5:C
1:B 2:A 3:C 4:C 5:C
How did you score?4-5 right answers:You are a true persuader.2-3:Could do better.0-1:Please call us.We have a nice car for sale.
你得了多少分?4-5个正确答案:你是一个真正的说服者.2-3个正确答案:你可以做的更好.0-1个正确答案:请给我们打电话,我们有一部好车要卖.
eg1:先给予后索取.
eg2:承认你的缺点.
eg3:不要只谈“得”,更要谈到失”
eg4:利用他人的证言.
eg5:寻找共同点.
【不知道您是用在哪方面,总之,对于说服力,
再问: 我都对了,可是我还是觉得自己没有说服力,这个好像不准哦
再答: 你是否考虑到你是不是如实回答了,或者是你对自己没有信心。不是准不准的问题。关键是你的问题。还有你也没有说自己在哪方面有说服力。总之,其实,上面的很难懂啦。我给你推荐下面的。1、少说多做。没有人会当你是哑巴的,很多事情你还只知其然而不知其所以然,先努力做吧。 2、多听少说。学会倾听是很有益的,让你知道所以然,让你知道周边人的层次、素质,从而了解自己在群体中的定位。 3、思而后言。如果你所说的和别人是一样的,不说也吧,如果你说的东西人家听不懂,说他做什么?想好了再说,说大家听得懂、有思考的、有深度的话。 4、言行一致。说的就是想的,想的就是做的,如果言和行分离了,说服力也就拜拜了。 5、无欲则刚,不管你说什么,如果是失去了公允,哪怕一时有人附和,最终也是不能服人的,特别是带有太多自身功利时,说话就会大打折扣。 (先从心中有自信开始,再在说话中透露着自信,从而做到有说服力)
再问: 言之有理,我也想少说啊,可是已到了不能不说的时候了,现在觉得跟别人讲道理是件很累人的事。
再答: 所谓说服力,当然也就是你自身说话的魅力。你需要从细节做起,生活本就不简单,需要的是良好的心态。既然你不想说由不得不说,那还不如勇敢去面对。你很消极。试试上面的方法啊。