英语翻译“Oh ,no!Here I am at an American family`s home at the di

英语翻译
“Oh ,no!Here I am at an American family`s home at the dinner table.There are all kinds of plates,dishes ,cups and silverware at my place,Which should I use for which food?Should I sit down first or wait for the host to invite me?Should I bring a gift?Someone please tell me what to do!"
Have you ever been in or had a terrible dream about this situation?Don`t worry!This article will help you.It is important to know what kind of occasion you will be attending,Most Americans enjoy entertaining at home,but they don`t enjoy boring,tormal dinners,If,however,you are invited to a formal affair,such as a so-called "sit-down"dinner,you need know some necessary rules of "black tie"etiquette.Bfore arriving at your host`s home,you should make sure of three things,First ,be a few minutes late,say,about five to ten minutes if possible.Never be early ,as the host may not have everything prepared yet,Next ,as to whether to bring a gift ,in most informal fathering,it is not necessary .If you like,you can bring some fruit or sweets ,or,espercially if there is a hostess,some flowers.Above all,do not spend a lot of money,and never give money.Finally,wear vomfortable clothing.For example,at Chiristmas,a tie and jacket would be suitable for the gentlemen and a dress or sweater and skirt for the ladies,The most important piece of advice is this:enjoy yourself.No host enjoys seeing nervous or fearful guests who are struggling to"do the right thing"at his home

天,不!我在一个美国家庭的餐桌前.我的面前摆满了各式各样的盘子,碗,杯子和银器.对什么样的食物要用什么样的餐具呢?我是应该先坐下还是应该等到主人邀请我?我是不是应该带点礼物?可不可以有人告诉我该怎么做!
你有没有这样尴尬的境况或者做过类似烦恼的梦?不用担心!这篇文章可以帮助你.了解你面临怎样的突发状况这很重要.大部分的美国人喜欢在家娱乐,但他们不喜欢无趣、平庸的聚餐.如果你被邀请参加一个寻常聚会,如被称作“坐下”的宴会,你应该了解些“黑色领结”的规矩.在抵达主人家之前,你应该确保三件事情.第一,稍稍迟到一会,可能的话在五到十分钟之内.绝对不要早去,以免主人还没有做好准备.再次,关于是否要带礼物,在绝大多数的聚会上,并不必要.如果你乐意可以带些水果或糖果,如果是女主人,你也可以送些鲜花.最重要的是,不要花太多的钱,永远不要送钱.最后,穿着得体.比如,在圣诞节聚会上男士适合打领带穿衬衣女士则适合裙子或是线衣搭一件衬衣.最重要的一点建议：玩的开心!没有哪个主人愿意看到一个紧张拘谨吃力的"做对的事情"的客人在自己的家里