英语翻译I’m confused these days.We are taught at home and at sch

英语翻译
I’m confused these days.We are taught at home and at school that using violence (暴力) is the least civilized (文明的) way to solve problems.For example,last week I thought about hitting my friend for winning a beautiful shell while we were playing at the beach.I talked with him instead and we came to an agreement.If two adults had a disagreement,and if they used violence towards each other in order to win,is it all right?
When two countries disagree,they often fight a war.Why is using violence not okay at home,at school,or in your country but okay between countries?So many people have been killed because of wars,not only soldiers but ordinary people,even small children and babies.And refugees (难民) exist,too.
A war is a great violence,like two people fighting over a shell,just much bigger.Adults say they are fighting wars in order to solve problems and make peace.But can you really “make peace” by killing so many people?I don’t think bombs (炸弹) can reach people’s hearts and change them.Bombs can’t create love and caring,and that’s what we need in the world.Why do adults use violence so quickly?Why can’t they use their wisdom (智慧) and talk it over?
Adults might say that things are not that easy.But they are the ones that teach us to be kind,not to hurt people,and not to kill.Why don’t they act as what they say?
1.Why is the writer confused these days?

我很困惑这些天.我们被教导在家里和学校,使用暴力（暴力）是最起码的文明（文明的）解决问题的方法.例如,上星期,我想过打打赢一个美丽的贝壳,而我们在沙滩上打我的朋友.我跟他不是和我们达成了协议.如果两个成年人有分歧,
如果他们使用暴力,对彼此在以量取胜,是这一切吗?
当两个国家不同意,他们经常打仗.为什么使用暴力不在家好,在学校,或在您的国家,但国家之间好吗?因此,许多人被打死,因为战争,不仅是士兵,但一般人,哪怕是很小的儿童和婴儿.和难民（难民）存在了.
阿战争是一个伟大的暴力就像两个多壳战斗的人,只是更大.成年人表示,他们打仗,为了解决问题和实现和平.但是你能真的“和解”,杀害了这么多人?我不认为炸弹（炸弹）,可以达到人们的心灵和改变.炸弹不能创建爱心和关怀,这就是我们在世界上的需要.
为什么成年人使用暴力如此迅速?他们为什么不能用自己的智慧（智慧）及商量?
大人可能会说,事情并不那么容易.但他们是那些教导我们有爱心,不伤的人,而不是杀人.他们为什么不作为他们说什么?
1.Why是作家混淆这些天?