英语翻译Cyber dating,cyber love…most people may feel so fresh wi

英语翻译
Cyber dating,cyber love…most people may feel so fresh with these terms.A guy “meets” a girl in a chatting room; they find out that they have so much in common.And from all the chatting and meeting online,all of a sudden they discover that they discover that they cannot sleep tight (睡得很香) anymore without saying good night to their cyber lovers.
How does a cyber love vary from a real life romance?Cyber love is not the love of parents or friends but the affection,attachment and care toward a person of opposite sex.Perhaps one significant difference is that communication plays such a large part.Words that convey feelings have enormous effect.Before a real date we fix our hair and our clothes,while on the Internet we polish our intellect,imagination and personality.Actually the sequence (n.顺序) is reversed (v.颠倒) ---u first we show our inner beauty and only after it has won victory does the veil (n.面纱) fall off the physical vehicle of that personality at the time of that first meeting in person.
It is a popular topic in cyberspace to debate whether or not true love can develop merely on an intellectual level,which is without the physical attraction,the familiarity of the other’s appearance.To put it another way:does the physical appearance of the man or woman play a part in the relationship if they have already fallen in love through the exchange (n.交流) of thoughts and feelings?
Many people say it is against the nature of love because cyber love deprives people of the sense of sight,facial (adj.面部的) expression and body language.On the other hand,there are those who favor Internet relationships claiming that the emotional relationship that develops in such a way is superior to mere physical attraction.
Whatever opinions may be on cyber love,it must be said that the power of Internet has proved strong enough to bring together lovers who have few opportunities to meet in the real world because of distance or even financial barriers (n.障碍).
Love comes easily on the Internet and goes away easily too.But that doesn’t mean cyber dating and cyber love do not exist.
If love is a seed,the Internet is just the wind,your heart is the water and life itself is the soil.

网路约会,网恋…大多数人对这些会感到如此新鲜.一个男人“遇见”一个女孩在网上聊天室,他们发觉有很多共同点.经过网络聊天和会话,他们发现如果不跟网络恋人说句晚安就不能安然入睡.
网恋和现实爱恋究竟有多大的不同?网恋不是对父母之爱,朋友之情,而是对某个异性的喜爱,依恋和关心.或许一个显著的区别在于沟通扮演着一个重要的角色.言语传情起到了极大的效果.现实中约会前我们打理自己的头发.服饰,而在互联网上,我们依靠智慧,想象力和个人品格.实际上这个顺序被颠倒了,在和初结识的人约会时,我们只有在外表上赢得可定,而后才展示了我们的内在美.
这是一个热门话题,在网上讨论是否真爱可以仅仅在一个精神层面,而不依赖身体吸引,家庭背景等因素.换一种方式:如果他们已经坠入爱河通过交换的思想和感情,男人或者女人外表在这段关系中扮演什么角色?
很多人说这是一种反常的爱,因为网恋剥夺人的感官、面部表情和肢体语言.另一方面,有一些人支持网络情感关系的人声称,这样一种方式情感优于单纯的身体吸引.
无论对网恋持什么观点,我们必须承认,互联网的力量已经强大到足以令那些现实生活中因为距离或经济原因而无缘相会的恋人们相知相爱.
网上的爱情来的快去的也快,但是这并不意味着网络约会和网恋不存在.
如果爱是一粒种子,互联网就是那风,你的心灵是水,而生命本身即是土壤.
这文章估计是2000年左右的,现在都FACEBOOK,或者摄像头视频了.文章里说的事情过时了.（翻译者按）