英语翻译I am a strong believer that if a child is raised with ap

英语翻译
I am a strong believer that if a child is raised with approval,he learns to love himself and will be successful in his own way.Several weeks ago,I was doing homework with my son in the third grade and he kept standing up from his chair to go over the math lines．I kept asking him to sit down,telling him that he would concentrate better.He sat but seconds later,as if he didn’t even notice he was doing it,he got up again．I was getting frustrated,but then it hit me．I started noticing his answers were much quicker and accurate when he stood up．Could he be more intent while standing up?This made me start questioning myself and what I had been raised to believe.I was raised to believe that a quiet,calm child was a sure way to success．This child would have the discipline to study hard,get good grades and become someone important in life． Now those same people perhaps come to realize that their kids are born with their own sets of DNA and personality traits,and all you can do is loving and accepting them．As parents,throughout their growing years and beyond that,we need to be our kids' best cheerleaders,guiding them and helping them find their way.I have stopped asking my son to sit down and concentrate．Obviously,he is concentrating just in his own way and not mine．We need to learn to accept our kids' ways of doing things．Some way may have worked for me but doesn't mean we need to carry it through generations．There is nothing sweeter than being individual and unique．It makes us free and happy and that's just the way I want my kids to live their own life

我坚信,如果一个孩子长大的批准,他学会了爱自己,将自己的方式获得成功.几周前,我在第三年级和我的儿子做作业,他站在椅子上起到数学系.我一直在问他坐下,告诉他,他会更好.他坐着,但几秒钟后,他好像没注意到他时,他又站了起来.我越来越感到沮丧,但它击中了我.我开始注意他的答案是更快的速度和准确的时,他站了起来.他可能更多的意图而站起来吗?这让我开始质疑自己我已经相信.我从小就相信,一个安静的,平静的孩子是成功的必由之路.这孩子会有纪律,努力学习,获得好成绩,成为生活中重要的人.现在,这些人可能意识到,他们的孩子是天生的与他们自己的DNA和人格特征集,和所有的你能做的就是爱和接受他们.作为父母,在他们的成长和超越,我们需要我们的孩子的最好的啦啦队,引导他们,帮助他们找到自己的方式.我不再问了我的儿子坐下来,集中注意力.很显然,他是集中在自己的方式,不是我的.我们要学会接受我们的孩子做事情的方法.一些方式可能为我工作,但并不意味着我们要把它通过几代人.没有什么比在个人独特的甜美.它使我们的自由和快乐,我只是想让我的孩子过他们自己的生活方式