英语翻译If parents bring up child with the aim of turning the ch

英语翻译
If parents bring up child with the aim of turning the child into a genius(天才),they will cause great damage to him．According to several leading educational psychologists(心理学家),this is one of the biggest mistakes which some parents make．Generally,the child will understand very well what the parent expects,and will fail．Unrealistic(不现实的)parental expectations can cause great damage to children．
However,if parents are not unrealistic about what they expect their children to do,but are hopeful in a sensible(有理智的)way,the child may succeed in doing very well—especially if the parents are very supportive of their child．
Michael Li is very lucky’．He is very fond of music,and his parents help him a lot by taking him to Concerts arid arranging private piano and violin lessons for him．They even drive him 50 kilometres twice a week for violin lessons.Although Michael’s mother knows very little about music.Michael’s father plays the trumpet(小号)in a large orchestra(管弦乐队).However,he never makes Michael enter music competitions if he is unwilling.Michael’s friend,Winston Chen,however,is not so lucky．Although both his parents are successful musicians,they set too high a standard for Winston．They want their son to be as successful as they are and so they enter him in every piano competition held．They are very unhappy when he does not win．"When 1 was your age,I used to win every competition I entered．"Winston’s father tells him．Winston is always afraid that he will disappoint his parents and now he always seems quiet and unhappy．

如果家长带着将孩子培养成天才的想法去养育孩子的话,他们将给孩子带来极大的伤害.根据一些顶尖的教育心理学家说,这是一些家长所犯的重大过错之一. 一般来说,（在这种情况下）孩子非常明白他们父母的期望,但仍会失败.不切实际的来自父母的期望会给孩子带来极大的伤害.
然而,如果家长不是对孩子抱有不切实际的期望,而是理智的充满信心的话,孩子反而会做得很棒--尤其是当家长对孩子非常支持的时候.
米歇尔.李 就非常幸运. 他喜爱音乐,而他的父母就帮助他很多,带他去听音乐会, 给他安排钢琴 和小提琴的家教等. 他们甚至一周两次的开车带他去50公里以外上小提琴课. 尽管米歇尔的妈妈对音乐所知寥寥,可他的父亲确实一个大的管弦乐队的小号手. 即使如此,他爸爸也从来不在米歇尔不愿意的情况下强迫他去参加音乐比赛. 然而,米歇尔的朋友 --温斯顿.陈 可就没这么幸运了.他的父母都是成功的音乐家,可是这也使得他的父母对他抱有过高期望.他们希望温斯顿可以像他们一样成功,所以他们强迫他去参加所有举行的钢琴比赛. 而当他没有获胜时,他的父母就没有好脸色. 温斯顿的父亲经常对他说：当我像你这么大的时候,我可是在所有我参加过的比赛中都胜出的.”温斯顿 现在总是害怕他会令他的父母失望,所以总是闷不吭声, 郁郁寡欢.
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