英语翻译Paragraph4We can make mistakes at any age．Some mistakes

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We can make mistakes at any age．Some mistakes we make are about money.But most mistakes are about people．"Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?" "When I got that great job,did Jim really feel good about it．as a friend?Or did he envy my luck?”“And Panl-why didn’t he pick up that he was friendly just because I had a nice car?” When we look back,doubts like these can make us feel bad.But when we look back．it's too late．
Why do we go wrong about our friends-or our enemies?Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning．And if we don‘t really listen,we miss the feeling behind the words．Suppose someone tells you,"Your're a lucky dog．"That's being friendly．But "lucky dog" There's a bit of envy in those words．Maybe he doesn’t see it himself．But bringing in the phrase“lucky dog”puts you down a little．What he may be saying is that he doesn't think you deserve your luck．
"Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for is another noise that says one thing and means another.It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole．But is he?Wrapped up in this phrase is the thought you’re your problem isn't important．It's telling you to think of all the starving people in the world when you haven't got a date for Saturday night．
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s words．One way is to take a good look at the person talking．Do his words tit the way he looks?Does what he says agree with the tone of voice?His posture?The look in his eyes?Stop and think．The minute you spend thinking about
the real meaning behind what people say may save another mistake．

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我们在任何年纪都会犯错误.有些错误是与钱有关的.而大多数是与人有关的.”杰里真的在意我跟海伦分手?”我得到那份好工作时,吉姆真的感觉很好,当朋友吗?或者他是嫉妒我的运气?“”和panl-why他没接,他很友好,只是因为我有一辆漂亮的车吗?“当我们回顾,这些疑问让我们感到不舒服.但是当我们回首.太晚了.
为什么我们会误会我们的朋友或敌人?有时候人们说的话隐藏他们的真实意思.如果我们不用心听,我们就会错过话语的真实感情.假如有人告诉你,“你真是个幸运儿.”这是友好的.但“幸运儿”?有一点嫉妒的意思.也许他没看见它自己.但是带来“幸运儿”把你放下来一点.他所说的可能是,他不认为你应该得到你的运气.
“只是觉得所有的东西,你应该感谢的是另一种噪音,口是心非.它可能意味着说话人试图让你看到你的问题的一部分,你的生活作为一个整体.但他?裹在这句话是想你的问题并不重要.它告诉你认为所有的人在挨饿的世界时,你没有星期六晚上的约会.
你怎么能告诉背后的真正意义的人的话.一个方法就是看看说话的人.他的话山雀他看的方式吗?他说没有什么同意语音语调?他的姿势?他的眼神?停下来想一想.花一分钟来思考
背后的真正意义是什么人说可以节省另一个错误.


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