英语翻译We can make mistakes at any age.Some mistakes we make ar

英语翻译
We can make mistakes at any age.Some mistakes we make are about money.But most mistakes are about people.“Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?” “When I got that great job,did Jim really feel good about it,as a friend?Or did he envy my luck?” “And Paul-why didn’t pick up that he was friendly just because 1 had a car?” When we look back,doubts like these can make us feel bad.But when we look back,It’s too late.
Why do we go wrong about our friends – or our enemies?Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning.And if we don’t really listen we miss the feeling behind the words.
Suppose someone tells you,“You’re a lucky dog .” that’s being friendly.But “lucky dog”?There’s a bit of envy in those words.Maybe he doesn’t see it himself.But bringing in the “dog” bit puts you down a little.What he may be saying is that the doesn’t think you deserve your luck.
“Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for ” is another noise that says one thing and means another.It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole.But is he?Wrapped up in this phrase is the thought that your problem isn’t important.It’s telling you to think of a all the starving people in the world when you haven’t got a date for Saturday night.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s words?One way is to take a good look at the person talking.Do his words fit the way he looks?Does what he says agree with the tone of voice?His posture (姿态)?The look in his eyes?Stop and think.The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people to you may save another mistake.

我们在多大的时候都有可能犯错误.一些错误和钱有关.但是,大多数的错误是关于人的.“难道当我和海伦分手的时候,杰里真的很在意?” “当我得到这个很棒的工作时,作为朋友来说,吉姆真的感觉很高兴么?他会忌妒我的运气吗?”“保罗为什么不载我一程,只是因为我自己有车?”“当我们回首往事,类似的怀疑使得我们很难过.但当我们认识到时,为时已晚.
为什么我们用错误的方式去对待我们的朋友-或者我们的敌人?有时,人们说隐藏其真正的意义.如果我们真的不听我们错过后面的感觉的话.
假如有人告诉你,“你是个幸运儿.”这是友好的.但“幸运儿”这个词本身就会带有一点点的妒忌.也许他并没有看清自己.但引用“狗”这个词就会让你失望一些.他的意思可能时说,他不认为你值得交好运.
“想想看你必须要感谢的所有的事情”是另一种带有隐藏涵义的话.这可能意味着,说话的人是试图让你看到你的问题的一部分扩大到你的生活这么个整体.但他真的是这个意思么?这句话是认为您的问题并不重要.这是告诉你,当你有没有一个周末休息日的时候,想一想世界上所有的饥民.
你如何能告诉别人说的话后面的真正含义呢?方法之一是当别人说话仔细观察他.他的话和他的神态看起来是否一致?他说同意时的口吻?他的姿态 仔细观察他的眼睛?停下来想一想.这时候,你花几分钟思考一下人们跟你说话的的真正含义是什么,这样你就可以避免犯另一个错误.
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