英语翻译Make Up Your Mind to SucceedKind-hearted parents have un

英语翻译
Make Up Your Mind to Succeed
Kind-hearted parents have unknowingly left their children defenseless against failure.The
generation born between 1980 and 2001 grew up playing sports where scores and
performance were played down because "everyone's winner." And their report cards
sounded more positivethan ever before.As a result,Stanford University professor Carol
Dweck,PhD,calls them "the overpraised generation."
Dweck has been studying how people deal with failure for 40 years.Her research
has led her to find out two clearly different mind-sets that have a great effect on how we
react to it.Here's how they work:
A fixed mind-set is grounded in the belief that talent (才能) is genetic - you're a born
artist,point guard,or numbers person.The fixed mind-set believes it's sure to succeed
without much effort and regards failure as personal shame.When things get difficult,it's
quick to blame,lie,and even stay away from future difficulties.
On the other hand,a growth mind-set believes that no talent is entirely heaven-sent
and that effort and learning make everything possible.Because the ego (自尊) isn't on t
he line as much,the growth mind-set sees failure as a chance rather than shame.When
faced with a difficulty,it's quick to rethink,change and try again.In fact,it enjoys this
experience.
We are all born with growth mind-sets.(Otherwise,we wouldn't be able to live in
the world.) But parents,teachers,and instructors often push us into fixed mind-sets by
encouraging certain actions and misdirecting praise.Dweck's book,Mind-set:The New
Psychology of Success,and online instructional program explain this in depth.But she
says there are many little things you can start doing today to make sure that your children,
grandchildren and even you are never defeated by failure.

决心成功|
善良的父母已经在不知不觉中留给自己的孩子不能抵御失败的能力在1980和2001之间的|代长大后,在体育成绩和|表演每个人都是赢家.