英语翻译Hi,I'm Donna Barnes.I'm a Life and Relationship Coach,an

英语翻译
Hi,I'm Donna Barnes.I'm a Life and Relationship Coach,and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City.
In this clip,we'll talk about who should pay on a date.Well,everybody kind of assumes that the guy is going to pay on the first date,and he should,but if a woman asks the guy out,and she wants to be the dominant in the relationship,then maybe she should pay for the first date.
But as you start to date,and you're spending more time together,do a reality check about the balance of the relationship.If you're dating somebody who's making a lot more money than you do,then they can pick up a lot more checks.But if it's a balanced financial situation,then it doesn't hurt to pick up a check here and there,or pick up smaller things.
The guy should get the bigger things like dinner,but you could get dessert,or maybe,you know,if you go to get ice cream afterwards,or if you go to the movies,you can pay for the movies.So sharing the finances really does help a relationship,if the financial situations are pretty much balanced.
So let the man be the man.Let him get the checks in the beginning,but then show him that you appreciate him,and that you're not taking advantage of him,by contributing too.
This is Donna Barnes,Life and Dating Coach,in New York City.

嗨,我是多娜•巴恩斯.我的生活和关系的教练,和业主的纽约约会教练在纽约市.
在这样的速度,我们将会谈论谁应该支付约会.好了,大家种假定这个家伙要支付在第一次约会的时候,应该是他,但是如果一个女人问那个人出去,她想成为占统治地位的关系,那么也许她应该支付的第一次约会.
但是当你开始约会,你花更多的时间在一起时,进行现实核查关于平衡的关系.如果你约会的人做更多的钱比你做什么,然后他们可以捡到更多的支票.但是,如果它是一个平衡的财务状况,那么它不会伤害到捡起一张支票,在这里和那里,或接小事情.
这个家伙应该得到更大的事情一样,你能共进晚餐,但是吃甜品吗,或者,你知道,如果你去获得冰淇淋之后,或者如果你去看电影,你能支付的电影.所以共享的财政状况确实有助于人际关系,如果财务状况相当多的平衡.
那么让人成为的人.让他把支票的开始,但那表示你感激他,我知道你不是他的优势,通过.
这是多娜•巴恩斯,生命和约会教练,在纽约市