College---A Transitin Point in My Life When I first entered

College---A Transitin Point in My Life When I first entered college as a freshma,I was afraid that
College---A Transitin Point in My Life
When I first entered college as a freshma,I was afraid that I off by myself,away from my family for the first time.Here I was surrounded by people I did know and who did know me.I would have to make friends with them and perhaps also compete with them for grades in courses I would take.Were they smarter than I was?Could I keep up with them?Would they accept me?
I soon learned that my life was now up to me.I had to set a study program if I wanted to succeed in my courses.I had to regulate the time I spent studying and the time I spent socializing.I had to decide when to go to bed,when and what to eat,when and what to drink,and with whom to be friendly.These questions I had to answer for myself.
At first,life was a bit difficult.I made mistakes in how I uesd my time.I spent too much time making friends.I also made some mistakes in how I chose my first friends in college.
Shortly,however,I had my life under my control.I managed to go to class on time,do my first assigments and hand them in,and pass my first exams with fairly good grades.In addition,I made a few friends with whom I felt comfortable and with whom I could share my fears.I set up a routine that was really my own-a routine that met my needs.
As a result,I began to look upon myself from a different perspective.I began to see myself as a person responsible for myself ans responsible for my friends and family.It felt good to make my own decisions and see those decisions turn out to be wise ones.I guess that is all part of what people call "growing up."
What did life have in store for me?At that stage in my life,I really was not certain where I would ultimately go in life and what I would do with the years ahead of m.But I knew that I would be able to handle what was ahead because I had successfully jumped this improtant hurdle in my life:I had made the transition from a person dependent in my family for emotional support to a person who was responsible for myself.的翻译

大学--我生命中的转折点
当我以新生的身份进入大学时,我为自己担心,第一次离家那么远.在这,被我不认识也不认识我的人包围着.我不得不跟他们交朋友,也有可能要跟他们在我参加的课程上为学业竞争.他们比我聪明吗?我能赶上他们吗?他们会接受我吗?
很快我就认识到我的生活由我自己做主.我如果要在学业上取得成绩就必须为自己制定一个学习计划.我必须在学习的时间和社交的时间之间取得平衡.我不得不决定什么时候上床睡觉,什么时候吃东西和该吃什么,什么时间喝东西和该喝什么,还有,要对谁友善.这些都是该我自己去回答的了.
起初,生活有些辛苦了.我在怎样安排我的时间上犯了些错误.我花了太多时间去交朋友.我也在怎样在大学里交第一批朋友的问题上犯了错误.
当然,很快地,我重新掌控了自己的生活.我设法准时去教室上课,做好第一份作业然后上交,以优异的成绩通过了第一次考试.此外,我交了几个朋友,跟他们呆在一起我觉得很舒服,他们也可以分担我的担心.我建立了一个完完全全属于自己的时间表--一个可以满足我的需求的时间表.
然后,我开始用不同的视角来看待自己.我开始意识到自己要对自己负责,也要对我的朋友和家庭负责.我为能自己做决定,而且看到这些决定是明智的而感觉良好.我猜,这就是人们所说的"长大成人".
生活为我准备了什么?在生命中的那个阶段,我实在不能确定最终我会去哪儿,接下来的日子我能干什么.但我知道我能主宰我的命运,因为我成功的跳过了这个生命中的重要障碍:我从一个需要从家庭汲取感情支持的人成为了一个能对自己负责人的人.